Why are there so many single girls at church? Why do I feel so lonely when I go? Dating advice? xx?

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Why are there so many single girls at church? Why do I feel so lonely when I go? Dating advice? xx?

I became single almost a year ago. My fiance who was a Christian ended up being unfaithful. We met on a Christian holiday. Im a Christian girl aged 29. I'd say I was a loving, pretty and fun girl. However there seems to be a shortage of men in church and Ive joined various Christian dating sites with no success. There are LOADS of single girls in all the churches I have been to. All seem lone...

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Im almost 30 + a single Christian girl. Have I Ieft it 2 late? Most of the girls my age are attached or lonely?

I became single almost a year ago. My fiance who was a Christian ended up being unfaithful so I ended our relationship. Its taken a year to get my confidence back. I was so happy but I didnt know him. Im a Christian girl aged 29. I'd say I was a loving, pretty and fun girl. However there seems to be a shortage of men in church and Ive joined various Christian dating sites with no success. Ther...

Why are there so many single girls at church? Why do I feel so lonely when I go? Dating advice? xx?

Posted By: Adam on September 22, 2011 in Christian Dating - Comments: 1 Comment »

I became single almost a year ago. My fiance who was a Christian ended up being unfaithful. We met on a Christian holiday. Im a Christian girl aged 29. I’d say I was a loving, pretty and fun girl. However there seems to be a shortage of men in church and Ive joined various Christian dating sites with no success.

There are LOADS of single girls in all the churches I have been to. All seem lonely and disheartened and most seem resigned to the fact that they will end up single and alone. It’s horrible. I cry everytime I come back from church because I am surrounded by single girls and then young families. I feel such a pressure to find someone. I think its because I had planned my wedding and in my head I was going to be settled with a family. Now Im on my own again and most people my age in couples dont want to hang around with me. They are doing things with their partner.

Im starting to think I should date guys who are not Christians or face being single forever. The only problem is that I am still a virgin and dont want to have sex until Im married. How will I find a non Christian who will wait for me? Will they think Im a freak? Any advice would be really appreciated. I feel so crap right now xxx

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Caitlin says:

September 22, 2011 at 8:05 pm

People don’t go to church to find a partner, they go to find god. So stop looking for human love there

Go out like normal, dating is totally in your hands so if you don’t like a guy because he’s not Christian enough for you, or he won’t wait or whatever…just move on. If someone really loves you they’ll wait.

29 isn’t old at all, just look for guys outside church, Christians do go out too