Hey guys, I’m a 22 year old male and i’m dating or have been with my girlfriend since I was 16. Along the years within our relationship I’ve been born again and baptized since two years ago. And I’m facing a very big dilemma. My girlfriend is not a christian, and I’ve tried embracing the love of christ and bring her to know the lord. It has been awhile now and things are not going pretty well anymore. She believes in god, but it seems like she isn’t a seeker. I dont know what to do. We constantly argue and I barely have any strength left to handle us being together and not being on the same level. I feel like were not working together but against each other. I’m totally lost, something is telling me to let her go but its hard because my heart won’t let her go. Should I continue and hope one day things will get brighter or leave her? I still care for her and I even more miserable without her, but things are screwed.

i just tried a dating site called zoosk last week and i met an attractive 20 year old shes vry very attractive and she wants a relationship we hit it off and after a week we were a couple,the thing that bothers me is that she goes out and drinks and parties alot,and i told he ri dont have many guy friends mostly friends that are girls and she said that thats not good you need guy friends i was like i have a few but i get along better with girls and she told me when she turns 21 in feb shes going to go out a lot to try clubs and spring break weekend and bars and she wants me to have guy friends for that reason well all this upset me and i told her i dont think we are commpatible it upset me majorly i dont go out alot and drink im ore of a hombody can anyone give me some advice shes a really decent girl christian and vrything but i can see the youngness in her
she never said she was going to be unfaitful at all,just that when she turns 21 in february she want to try out clubs and bars and shes going to a bachelorette party in feb and going out for spring break she doesnt cheat evr
and i dunno why she wants me to have guy friends,she said so what are you going to do when i go out with my girlfriends? i said i dunno,so makes no sense to me i have two guy friend sin my life and im not the guy who hangs out and does stuff all the time i work i go to school i travel for my job it requires a lot of attention so i dunno,i know shes young and wants to experience the bar scene i dunno
hahah so andrea you think she will cheat even though she told me she wouldnt and is a 100 percent commited?

Hi. I am thinking of suicide right now. I am a 20 year old woman that got herpes as a result of a rape. I am so severely depressed. I had a sore about 3 weeks after the rape. I went to the doctor and she said it was a yeast infection. However, two day sago (10 months after the rape) I got another sore. It healed in two days.

I just want to die. I just went to this website for herpes support and it says “Face it, you WILL be rejected”

I can’t take it anymore. I just want to die. I was hoping to wait to have sex until marriage. However, I don’t know if any men these days would be willing to wait.

I just want to die. I am supposed to start college tomorrow (I dropped out bc of the rape but they are letting me come back) but I am so depressed. I was planning on telling my future fiance after we are engaged. If I tell every guy I am casually dating, they will blab to my whole social circle. Then everyone I know will know. Why do people say that would be dishonest if I wait to tell my fiance after we are engaged? Should I just put on my Facebook and MySpace that I have herpes, just be honest? What ever happend to privacy? How is it any guys business unless we are planning on getting married.

Please help me. I am seriously considering suicide. My whole life is shattered. I went shopping today at the mall but I was so deeply drepssed. I have a fresh start at school tomorrow (the rape ruined my schooling but the dean is letting me come back) but all I think about is herpes.

Should I kill myself and end it all? Will every guy think I am disgusting? SHOULD i GO TO CHURCH AND MEET A GUY? Would a nice Christian guy understand?????? How come every guy I meet as soon as we start going on days he asks how I like sex……….If guys these days are so casual about sex, then why are they so grossed out be herpes??? People are bound to get herpes eventually.

Should I kill myself? I have no hope.

How do you feel about meeting someone online? I met this guy on Craigslist and we have just been emailing each other. No personal data or pictures exchanged. We are being respectful of each others privacy. But it went from friendly emails to flirty ones…..not purposely but I think because there might be something. How do you all feel about online talking that may turn into something? And is it really safe? I know you cant always be too sure. But how do you really know if the guy is telling the truth? I guess there really is no way, just have to go with your gut. Help me please!

How do you feel about meeting someone online? I met this guy on Craigslist and we have just been emailing each other. No personal data or pictures exchanged. We are being respectful of each others privacy. But it went from friendly emails to flirty ones…..not purposely but I think because there might be something. How do you all feel about online talking that may turn into something? And is it really safe? I know you cant always be too sure. But how do you really know if the guy is telling the truth? I guess there really is no way, just have to go with your gut. Help me please!

The start date of my visa is 25/11/08 and it’s valid for 27 months. I thought this means I am free to enter the country at anytime within the dates of validity, but on the UK Border Agency website, it says that I must enter the UK within 28 days of the start date. Does this still apply? What happens if I enter 3 months after the start date instead?

I’m goin to join a few online dating sites and i have a couple of questions about profiles.

1.Should I write about all the positive things about myself?
2.How many pics are necessary? and what kind of pics? Is it ok to post my pic that is 3 years old?
3.If there’s DO’s and DON’Ts, please tell me about it.

thanks in advance!

I recently got into online dating (eharmony) and have talked to a few nice guys back and forth. One guy in particular has really caught my eye. We’ve been messaging each other for about 1.5 weeks now. My problem is that I can’t really tell if he’s interested. He continues to respond to my messages, answering my questions about him and asking me a few things about myself. He always greets me with a pleasant enthusiastic opening, but he just doesn’t write very long messages. It seems like he’s putting in the bare minimum while I feel like my messages are twice as long. Should I take that as a sign of disinterest or is that just a guy thing to not write long messages? Would he continue to communicate with me if he wasn’t interested? I really want to just meet him in person because I’d rather get to know someone that way opposed to typing small talk back and forth. Is that too pushy to tell him that or would he maybe be relieved to get past the messaging?

We have been dating over 2 years, we started dating our senior year of high school and everything was fine.we decided to go to colleges in the same city, about 30 min apart. Over the past year she has been increasingly needy. She needs to hang out every/all weekend, she needs to have at least a 10-15 min conversation twice a day, not to mention a 30 min phone conversation at night before we go to sleep. if i am talking to her online, and stop paying attention to her (because i am doing a paper or something) she gets upset and gives me attitude, when we part ways after hanging out all weekend, she completely shuts off and becomes very negative and depressed. She gets pissed if i only give her a 5 min conversation. I have a busy life to lead in college, plenty of work and such, and if seems like she doesnt understand. Now dont get me wrong, i do loveher,we have alot in common, laugh alot. I take pride in how well i treat her, i give her loads of attention,love and time, shes 2 need
deb, let me rephrase. I spend every weekend, all weekend with her, i have done so for 2 years straight. Because of that, i have no more guy friends, or friends in general. I try, but i dont have time. She texts messages me 20-30 times a day and if i do not reply to all of them, i get yelled at. I get her flowers for no reason at all, or bring her food. If she is having a bad day, i will come and cheer her up. I take care of her problems for her, spoil her with everything possible. I have driven to her @ 2:00 in the mornign just to kiss her when she needed someone. I think the problem is i am to soft. I give in to easy, and i put myself out there to much and its going to end up hurting me. I love her dearly, and I give her all the time i can. I have to balance out her, schoolwork, writing for the city’s news paper, the school paper, sports, and a job. I have to sacrifice all of my free time to make it work, and I do not think that is fair.
and its not the ammount of phone calls, i love talking to her. I truly do, i love spending time with her. Its just when i stop that i get my head bitten off. Or i only give a 5 min phone conversation and she treats me with attutide and depression all day. That is what im upset about.

Reason: I want to find a good automatic web-data-mining software. Simply put, it’s a piece of software that can explore a specific web site and extract specific data (that I specify) from a site and save in some useful format on my computer. Specifically speaking, I want to use this software to automatically harvest data from Flat (Apartment) Letting web sites like ‘RightMove’. The ultimate result I’d like from this software is that I configure it to work with whichever Letting Agencies’ web site, press 1 button, and it automatically harvests all data I’ve specified, and outputs it into a spreadsheet format.

Requirements:

1)It needs to be free. Computers have been around way too long with the mostly-sole purpose of repeating instructions at phenomenal speeds and sifting / sorting data… I don’t really believe that it should still cost so very much to purchase software of this type when performing calculations and sorts is practically what computers were invented to do.

2)No ‘Trial Versions’ unless they last indefinitely and have no real set-backs in capability. In other words, I don’t need to know about a really good software but which is only free on its trial version (in which it only lasts 14 days and caps the amount of data you can harvest).

3)The software must be ‘automatic’. What I mean is simply after I specify the data I want to extract from a site, I can set it to ‘automatically harvest data’ in the way I’ve told it to and export that data to whatever file I want. I don’t want to have to manually tell it, each time, how to extract the data. I realize if the web page in question changes it’s layout or format that I would have to re-create the extraction process. I don’t mind this.

4)It needs to be somewhat easy-to-use (hopefully visual in nature). I can handle small tinkering / ‘mod’ing’ (modifying) of simple languages (Javascript, etc)… however my programming knowledge is, sadly, not vast enough to write large bits of code myself or do anything more than light to medium ‘modifying’ of code to fit my purposes.

Software I’m already aware of:

Mozenda – This, to my knowledge, is free only for a 14 day Trial, otherwise it’s pay to purchase. For these reasons I am not interested in it (unless there is, in fact, a “Lite” version which has no expiration date).

‘Data Handling Software’ I currently have:

I have Excel, Office, and Access 2003. Other than these do not have any software capable of parsing through data gathered by a web-harvester / extractor / miner. I am completely willing to download other programs which can deal well with the data extracted by any web mining software you guys recommend to me. Again, however, they need to be free and relatively easy-to-use.

Side-notes:

I am aware Excel has methods by which you can Import Web Queries directly into the sheet. This, however, is not automatic (from what I know), and requires a lot of time and manual handling.

Thank you all, in advance, for any assistance. I’ve spent a lot of time and effort trying to locate software of this nature, and so far come up short.