I’d like to go to a church that’s not too preachy. AND ONE THAT DEFINITELY DOESN’T EXPECT MONEY FROM ME SINCE I DON’T HAVE MUCH! I’d like to attend a church that is more about living life in a Christian like manner and is about being a “good” person! However, it’d have to be somewhat liberal. I have been dating a guy for 8 years and we are sexually active and I see nothing wrong with that. It isn’t practical for us to get married as we are both not financially stable. It’d be great to find a church where I could socialize and hang out with good people. Are they all against drinking in moderation??? I have no friends except for my boyfriend. I am very depressed and I think the right church might help me get over my depression! I just don’t like it when they push Jesus down your throat all the time. I think being a Christian should be about being a good person, does that make sense? I was baptized Greek Orthodox but I don’t fit in at all with this branch of Christianity.

Ok, long list but here goes.

- I’m 15
- Asian-Canadian (born in Canada)
-Wears glasses (not nerdy ones though)
- Black hair styled similar to Daniel Craig’s
- I have above average intelligence (but not gifted)
- Christian-Catholic
- I enjoy Marksmanship and have a slick trigger finger with 90% accuracy
- Enjoys the occassional singing. Sounds a bit like Bruno Mars. high voice sounds like Prince. Attempted Michael Jackson but failed XD
- TV Shows: CSI, Everybody Hates Chris, Flashpoint, Dog the Bounty Hunter, CTV News???
- Movies: James Bond 007, Rush Hour, Kick-A**, Casino Royale, Speed, Spider-Man, Dark Knight.
- Music: Michael Jackson, Bruno Mars, Stevie Wonder, Marvin Gaye, Chris Cornell, Eminem
- Enjoys watching Chris Rock
- Conservative on Crime
- Wants to become a Police Officer when I’m older.
- Past crushes (for some reason) all looked similar to Chloe Moretz (yeah, had a crush on her too)
- Never had a girlfriend
- Never really had the guts to talk to a new girl
- Likes my drinks shaken, not stirred (except for soft drinks. I’d prefer neither method for that)
- Good at playing cards (Won $8500 in fake money in a Teen Casino on a cruise)
- A member of the Royal Canadian Air Cadets (which means I’m literally sworn in to serve Her Majesty the Queen)
- I know how to treat a girl well
- I travel a lot. I’ve been to Hong Kong, New York City, Bermuda, Macau, Vegas, China.

So, what do you think?

Please no answers like you’re a freak get out. Only honest answers please.

Also, I’m a total sh*t magnet when it comes to things sometimes. For example, I’ve been targeted by a small gang of white supremacists (whom I single-handedly took on, and won)

And my relationships don’t last too long. My closest ever to a girlfriend was dated for three hours (that was because it was on a vacation).

Heck to provide a pic I even went through the trouble of making an account on espin network for the sole purpose of providing a picture because twitter pics aren’t big enough.

http://www.espin.com/profile.php?sid=c2803f13f1cceccac3e2b80e68202d96&mid=1phs71201040&click=nav

Suffered from relationship trauma (from a vacation) and is now starting to fall towards the palyer route

I couldn’t date someone who didn’t like Lady Gaga, that would be a Huge deal breaker.

I guess it’d be like a Christian ruling out someone who didn’t believe in god.
But mines more valid cause Lady Gaga actually does exist. :p

I don’t know, I’m almost 30 and still single
maybe there’s no Christian woman for me out there.

I don’t know, I’m almost 30 and still single
maybe there’s no Christian woman for me out there.

Okay first off I do have a boyfriend. Okay well the guys I have dated are nothing like me. I mean we have some things in common but they don’t have a passion for things like I do. I love music, I play the guitar and I sing. I have always had a passion for it and I love to write my own songs and music. I love animals and love horse back riding. It’s like your free to ride and go were you please and the animals are so beautiful. I like sports and don’t like when guys go easy on me just cause I’m a girl. I like to be one of the guys sometimes but I still act like a girl, you know the nails and talking bout guys and hair stuff. But I HATE the color pink. I am a strong christian I don’t take crap from others, I hide my pain with a smile, I am a tough girl with everything I have been through and I have many different personalities. I can be shy and sweet and quiet around people I don’t know and shy in front of a group of people. I am not good at public speaking. But when I am around people I know I am crazy and lovable and fun to be around as my friend says. I like to skateboard, I do not like most meat I still eat it but not much. I am like basically 90% vegetarian. I care about the earth and everyone in it. I love to dance and swim, and gymnastics is amazing. Well what guy is like that? I mean the guys I dated are great but they don’t have really any of the same feelings and interests that I do?
Katie-No I know no one will have the exact same qualities as me, I just wanted to see if a guy had a lot of the same as me. I mean I don’t really care about much the main ones I care about are music, christian, swimming and riding. I mean is there any guy that has those 4 things?

I am a attention Wh**e???

I don’t get it? this is a site to speak about faith, religion and spiritual matters it’s not about *me* it’s not a dating or porn site there is plenty of sites out there if people are looking for that…

Is posting provocative pics or avatars a means for people to get attention here? or is it to show people of faith you are showing that immorality is the way to go?

To start off, im 18. Anyway, back when i was younger (in 7th grade), i saw this girl, and she was beautiful (i can literally remember the first day i saw her). I was so terribly shy that for 7th, and 8th grade, i may have said but a few words to her. Then high school came along and my crush continued, and still i did nothing. For 4 years i liked her *my junior year i tried to move on, and i was upset..=( * I also realized she had a bf and senior year was their 3rd year of dating. Then this summer, i was working at my school and there she is!! I dont know how it all happened, but suddenly we just started taking. Alot. We talk about everyday at work, and for about an hour – 4 hours online. I foundout she is still going out with her bf. I then realized that the closer i got to her, the more hurt id be. Shes so happy with her bf, if i hung around, id just get hurt realizing what i missed out on… THen the other day im talking to her and she tells me her and her bf are breaking up b4 they go to college. I felt so bad because they’re really great for each other, but at the same time, im like… for 4 years i sat and watched and did nothing, this is like my chance. So when i found this out, I suddenly became even more interested in her. I didnt change the way i was with her (havent been flirting more, none of that stuff cause they’re still a couple and i respect that, i dont want to interfere. But recently shes been telling me things like how he was pretty much her life and her friends have been telling her they could work things out because they’re only an hour apart from eachother. I dont know what i should do… I mean, i know i have to wait till she goes to college (on sunday), but what if she tries to patch things up with her bf after they break up? I want to tell her how i feel (how ive liked her for so long, shes on my mind everyday, I dont want to give up an opportunity for her again, i dont think i can take it… I thought i had gotten over her last year, but i guess i just supressed my liking for her.

SOrry this is so long, but shes just an amazing girl, shes so nice and kind, her personality is great, we have lots in common, and some not so common things, but thats good, cause opposites atttact, two common people would be boring. She doesnt know i like her this much, or for this long. I know if it doesnt work, time will heal, and the pain will lift, but its gonna be so rough, i really hope things can work oout, for all of us, even if it means i have to give her up so she can be with her bf right now…I know there may be plenty of fish in the sea, but still… even with having a pretty good life, i would love for her to add to it.

Thanks HaiLo, your answer has helped alot. Yeah i wasnt planning on rushing into this at all, i just want to like, prepare myself for all this, ya know. This is the first time ive ever been in a situation like this, im just conerned is all. This girl is really something special, shes like one of the reasons why i go to work. And each day i make sure to say hi to her.
But yeah, there may be other out there, maybe even better, i guess ill just have to wait and see… =\

Hi. I am a 15 year old guy. I live in a town with 3 categories of people; Rednecks, Gangsters, and Emo kids.
I do not fit in any of those categories and neither do most of my friends. I haven’t really had a good relationship in dating and wondering if it is really me or just not the right place for me? So…
I am pretty tall around 5′ 11.
I am not skinny but not like fat, just in the middle.
I am smart. I plan on going to a good college and being successful.
I am nice. I am not rude or trashy in any way.
The kind of music I like is Rock in general, but varies greatly from people like AC/DC to Elton John, to Soundgarden, to Green Day.
I can not stand most of the trashy (red neck and ghetto) people at the school.
I am in the band. I really like it a lot.
I like hanging out with friends and playing videogames. (I don’t like it when people assume that video games or science fiction is for nerds. I am not nerdy but I enjoy both a lot.)
I don’t really talk a lot around people I don’t really know even if I have classes with them so I don’t really meet a lot of new people which is probably a bad thing lol.
I love people with a good sense of humor.
And FINALLY (this is the one I worry about) I am agnostic. I am a very open minded person. I have tried church many times and tried to be Christian but I knew inside that I couldn’t believe.
Well that is basically it.
So, well thanks for any input you have. (am I a loser or in the wrong place)
Oh and (LOL) I look nothing like my Y!A avatar. Just so ya know.

Who would show up?

I’m in Seattle. COME ON OVER.