Ok so my friend is dating a 19 year old. She’s 15. Last summer another one of my friends, who was 14 at the time, dated a 19 year old and was raped. Here’s a link if you don’t believe me:

http//host.madison.com/news/local/crime_and_courts/article_f5379b92-b3f5-11e0-9f3c-001cc4c03286.html

This time it’s a 19 year old firefighter. I don’t trust him. He must be desperate or dumb or both to risk his job and his freedom dating a 15 year old. Apparently they met online when he was a senior and in firefighter training and she was a freshman. She has told me that she slept with him on the second time they’ve physically met, but I can’t tell if that’s true or not. I have also heard from her friends that he is anally controlling and texts her every 5 seconds when she goes out to make sure she’s not cheating on him. Personally, I don’t get what she sees in him at all. But she has dated a lot of really weird and creeperish people. What you think?
Oops the link didn’t post.

I mean, in general, if a Jewish woman dates a Christian man, what would be the reaction of the parents?

Of course, I’m not even referring to Orthodox Jews, since the answer is obvious.
I’m asking about the “ordinary” Jews, either from Israel or Diaspora

Thanks

Everyone wants me to win, they said so in the other Nexus’s question about the Backlash which I answered, so this is all I have to say about FAKE CHRISTIAN for the rest of the day

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak8BAmFh34Om7bLiH96RH73ty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20111111195155AA5EvUD

SORRY GUYS, I KNOW THEY WERE GETTING ANNOYING I JUST REALLY WANT TO SEE CHRISTIAN (FAKE) REACTION IF I WIN !! THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR VOTES, PLEASE DO NOT WITHDRAW (ANYWAY YOU CANNOT) COME ON GUYS, YOU WANT ME TO BEAT THAT FAG CHRISTIAN

My voters

Marsye
Hips Don’t Lie
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Frosty the supreme champion
chris
The Truth
The Messaih
Christian (real)
AJ Styles
the big daddy cool
Chris Jericho

I recently got into online dating (eharmony) and have talked to a few nice guys back and forth. One guy in particular has really caught my eye. We’ve been messaging each other for about 1.5 weeks now. My problem is that I can’t really tell if he’s interested. He continues to respond to my messages, answering my questions about him and asking me a few things about myself. He always greets me with a pleasant enthusiastic opening, but he just doesn’t write very long messages. It seems like he’s putting in the bare minimum while I feel like my messages are twice as long. Should I take that as a sign of disinterest or is that just a guy thing to not write long messages? Would he continue to communicate with me if he wasn’t interested? I really want to just meet him in person because I’d rather get to know someone that way opposed to typing small talk back and forth. Is that too pushy to tell him that or would he maybe be relieved to get past the messaging?

I’d really like to date a Christian guy for once, I’m tired of the atheist jerks I keep falling for. I go to a small church without any other teenagers besides me and just really want to meet one. Any suggestions?
I also like Video Games (Soul Calibur 3, Okami, Rock Band, Star Ocean, Final Fantasy and more), Rock Music, Dancing, Acting, Writing, Drawing, Mountain Biking, Cooking , Fishing and other stuff too :3

Here it is, please tell me why you do or don’t like it:

What I’m looking for is simple but hard to find. I would like to meet a guy who is an otaku (loves anime and japan), is a Christian, and doesn’t want to have sex until marriage (or at least is willing to wait for my sake). I want someone who will treat me good and isn’t a chauvanist. I don’t like controlling men. People tell me I’m very sweet. I am VERY very shy, I smile a lot, I’m socially akward and have a dorky disposition, but I like it. I also like to dress in geeky clothing sometimes. I love being outdoors, I play sims3 a lot, I draw, I love horror movies, I love to eat out, I LOVE HAVING FUN, I like clean (no alcohol) parties, and I am an otaku, wheee!:D
My favorite music artists and bands are: Gorillaz, Erasure, Aqua, Herman’s Hermits, Bjork, and anything upbeat and cheerful.
I think emo guys are really cute, but I don’t really care about looks. I am somewhat childish, but I can be responsible too. I have a STRONG belief in faires, so please don’t criticize me for that. I do not like critical or cynical people. I want someone who will love me unconditionally and never intentionally hurt me. I have been hurt in the past so I’m scared of being hurt again. I am generally optimistic. I care for others and hate to hurt their feelings. I live with my grandma, and I don’t plan on moving out any time soon, I love her so much!
I love Jesus, I try to stay on the right path, but I still mess up sometimes, and it would be awesome to have a partner who could help me along the way.
I also want someone who thinks I am beautiful both on the inside AND outside. I don’t want someone who will tell me other girls are prettier than me, i cannot tolerate shallow people. I do not care about looks, but it still hurts my feelings when people think i’m fat (because I’m NOT), and I still like people to tell me I’m pretty

I hope I don’t sound to picky for you, I am a very loving compassionate person and can be friends with just about anyone!
Is it really that much to ask for a chaste anime-loving Christian? That is all I want, yet you’re telling me I’m being too specific.

NOTE: I know it’s in the marriage section; that’s because the singles section tends to be filled with immaturity and teenagers. (That’s not saying all teens are immature, but you know what I mean.)

Sorry for the extremely personal question, but I’m an of-age girl dating an of-age guy who’s a Christian. I’m Christian as well, but I don’t really hold myself to the ’sex rules’ of Christianity, and he does (to an extent). We still have some fun sexually, but nothing involving penetration. The thing is… I hate the idea of waiting for marriage to have sex. We’ve been together quite a while and have built a strong emotional relationship… now I want to take the next step in the PHYSICAL relationship. Even though I love him, I don’t want to get married any time soon; I’m still young and there are things I want to do with my life before I’m stuck with someone permanently.

So I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place.

I guess my questions are:

1. Christians, how would you respond if your significant other approached you about sex?
2. Guys, do you masturbate, or do you think it’s a sin? (I’m not sure about his thoughts on this, I haven’t asked him yet, but I don’t think he’s that extreme.)
3. Last but not least… what are creative ways to ‘have fun’ that don’t involve him penetrating with his you-know-what?

Ah jeez, this is an embarrassing question. Anyway, serious responses only PLEASE, and thanks in advance. Will pick best answer.

I have decided to wait until marriage to have sex as a personal choice and commitment as a christian. I am open minded an not at all a prude. I have issues finding guys that will take me as I am and love me for who I am. With all the diseases an heart ache I made this decision to give the gift you can only give once as a wedding present. It don’t matter to me if my other half has had experience or not. Does anyone know of a dating site for other people who have decided to wait?

Im American, Christian, i dated a muslim guy cause i said im going to have an open mind, he looked italian or greek but hes an arab.

He hardly smiled, was serious, starred too hard, and was judegemental, put me down, called me 6 times a day, told me prays 5 times a day.
the guy totally scared me. are muslims like that usually?
praying 5 times a day is freakin weird
lamita thanks for the response, I guess hes ignorant.

My friend who is beautiful in every way, claims she’s not interested in guys. She’s 15 which makes it weirder. I KNOW for sure she’s not a lesbian. She talks about hot celebrities and acts like any other 15 year old girl. But she doesn’t seem interested in guys in the real world. I do admit that the guys in my school aren’t attractive.

At first, I just thought she was playing hard to get because a lot of guys fell for her. But I had a conversation with her and she explained to me how she thought the whole dating thing was really stupid. She said that it was a selfish thing that people use to fulfill their own urges. She even said she was going to stay a virgin until she gets married, which I’m totally for. I was planning the same.

I told her that even though dating may seem stupid, it is still an experience. It feels good to have someone you can connect with. She said “Well, you can still have that connection being friends” and left me speechless.

But why would she think so? She is a very devoted Christian and spends a lot of her time with her church friends. She has changed over the past 2 years. She matured and I can see it. We’ve been friends for the past 3 years but just in our social group. We grew closer not so long ago. Maybe a couple of months. She claims I’m the only person in our little group that she can communicate with.

Do any of you teenage girl feel this way? How can I make her understand the concept of teen dating (which is naive in my opinion but still a good experience)?